很多人从小被教导说 me 听起来不礼貌，于是到处都用 John and I，连用错的地方也不例外。其实一个简单的测试就能解决。

简短回答 #

  • I 是主语，发出动作：I called Anna.（我给 Anna 打了电话。）
  • Me 是宾语，承受动作，或者跟在介词后面：Anna called me.（Anna 给我打了电话。）

“去掉另一个人”测试 #

把另一个人去掉，看看哪个词单独用时听起来是对的。

John and ___ went to the meeting. → I went ✓ → John and I went to the meeting.

The manager thanked John and ___. → thanked me ✓ → The manager thanked John and me.

This is between you and ___. → between me ✓ → between you and me.

“Between you and I” 永远是错的 #

在介词（between、with、for、to、from）后面，要用 me：

  • between you and me
  • for Sarah and me
  • with my team and me

myself 容易用错的地方 #

只有当句子的主语也是 I，或者表示强调时，myself 才是正确的。

  • ✓ I made it myself.（这是我自己做的。）
  • ✓ I taught myself to code.（我自学了编程。）
  • ✗ Please contact John or myself. → Please contact John or me.

礼貌小提示 #

按照传统，要把自己放在最后：说 Anna and I、Anna and me，而不是 I and Anna。

常见错误 #

错误 正确
Me and Tom are going. Tom and I are going.
She invited Tom and I. She invited Tom and me.
Send it to myself. Send it to me.

让 AI 检查你的代词 #

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